Common ADD Struggle #1 – Values

Common ADD Struggle #1 – Values

There is a common misperception about values. ADD or not our world believes values are something that we chose or decide upon through life. There are theories that our deepest values are inherent, we are born with them and they are part of our soul. While it is hard for everyone to keep their values foremost in their minds, for someone with ADD it is 10 times harder to keep focused on ones values while making decisions. That is because those with ADD tend to notice many more possible values of which to consider.
It is a constant struggle for those with ADD to keep their values constantly present. I was recently asked what do you do to get these values first and foremost in a client’s mind. While there isn’t an answer that is constant for all, there are processes we can go through to help.
It begins with soul searching, noticing behaviors and getting feedback from friends and family. From there, it is advised to have guidance from a few sources to work through discovering your individual values. There are assessment tools used in the discovery phase followed by reflection of how your life’s energy is used in relation to the values discovered and finally integrating these values into your day to day life. Through constant thought processes, each individual along with their trusted advisors, can turn values thinking into a habit that will enhance your skills and awareness levels.
While this is a complex topic and each individual is unique, if you have a curious and provocative coach guiding you through discovery you will find a values based life awaits.